DerisionConsulting

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[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (11 children)

I think the pacing is just off once you get close to the end.

Once you get to Baldur's Gate, the game is a slog. If I didn't want to get the golden dice just so I could say that I got them, I probably wouldn't've finished the game.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Your first two main points were "Puberty is a choice made for us" and "All puberty has to change". Both of these use more welcoming language, but still have an implicit question to make the viewer curious, and give a path for the content of the video.

"Puberty is a choice made for us" - made by who? How can we make this choice ourselves?
"all puberty has to change" - change, change to what?

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

The idea that this is something coming from the government/medical community could work in a perfect world, but if a lot of places are having trouble with the law banning teachers from using a child's preferred name/pronouns, or removing all books that mention anything slightly not cis-het. Kids are often not taught anything about their bodies at a young enough age and are terrified that they are dying when they have their first period. I think that we're about 10 steps behind in North America to openly discussing trans/non-binary issues with kids.

The missing of making something and posting it online makes goof sense, but please use words that don't instantly turn away the potential audience. Some parts sound like satire of what leftist sound like. I think this guide should be aimed at the guardian of the person about to go through puberty because if you want this to be a self-guided tool, it would need to be understood by seven-year-olds.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

Because he changed it.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 week ago

How is this sad, or a story?

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago

Family traditions, even ones that are actively harmful, are hard to break. This religion often seems more than an emotionally abusive relationship

1 Corinthians 14:33-35 (NIV). Comments are in superscript:
For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—as in all the congregations of the Lord’s people. ^(Gaslighting.^ ^Also,^ ^Jesus^ ^says^ ^that^ ^he's^ ^here^ ^to^ ^fuck^ ^shit^ ^up^ ^(Luke^ ^12:49-53.),^ ^so^ ^either^ ^Paul^ ^or^ ^Jesus^ ^is^ ^wrong/lying.^ ^This^ ^assumes^ ^that^ ^God^ ^is^ ^real,^ ^and^ ^that^ ^the^ ^Bible^ ^is^ ^an^ ^accurate^ ^representation^ ^of^ ^what^ ^Jesus^ ^said).^

Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. ^(Shut-up^ ^and^ ^obey^ ^me^ ^woman)^
If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church. ^(nothing^ ^that^ ^you^ ^say^ ^has^ ^value^ ^to^ ^anyone^ ^who^ ^isn't^ ^fucking^ ^you,^ ^and^ ^even^ ^then...)^

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

Also, look at the charts. No phones or tablets have the camera fully supported.

To most people, a camera on a phone is a pretty key feature.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It's not really about the sponsors, it's about needing to come from wealth in order to be able to take the time to train, buy the equipment for the sport, make it to the regional/national/internation events to qualify for the team, or even afford to get to games for the event.

You need to be not-poor enough to even get to a level to where sponsors would be interested.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 66 points 1 week ago (4 children)

That a non-offensive version of asking "whose the man" to a lesbian couple.
The answer is "neither", and you look dumb for asking.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

I have seen people eat it straight out of the package before, which is absolutely disgusting.
Not everyone will like every food, even when prepared correctly.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 23 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (10 children)

Have you looked into animal-free alternatives like tofu, beans, or lentils?

Tofu has fewer calories than chicken per 100g, though it also doesn't have as much protein for the same size.

[–] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=faOUDoRmK_E

Kitty history, it's exactly like ours!!!

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca to c/connectasong@lemmy.world
 

The last song seems to be asking the subject to let go of something and stay/talk with them. At some point Kelela, you just need to say OK GO and move on.

 

Freak out!

 

If you look at the communities tab and sort by new, more communities there have 0 posts than have more than 10 posts. It seems like people are just making communities for the sake of having something to control, without any interest of actually contributing. Often times the communities are opposing, so it's not as if the mod actually has knowledge or an interest in all 6 sides.

Is there any discussion behind the scenes on a way to curb this. or is this not a concern at this time because lemmy is still small?

 

cross-posted from: https://kbin.social/m/lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone/t/954958

Joewackle J Kusi was finishing his film Nyame Mma when an anti-LGBTQ+ bill was passed, bringing the threat of prosecution for those ‘promoting’ queer stories

Arare Ghanian film featuring a queer main character could not have been released at a worse time for its director and cast. Joewackle J Kusi was making finishing touches to his short film, Nyame Mma (Children of God), and arranging screenings in the capital, Accra, when a piece of legislation passed through Ghana’s parliament, targeting LGBTQ+ content.

According to the bill approved in late February, those involved in the “wilful promotion, sponsorship or support of LGBTQ+ activities” will face jail sentences of up to five years. The legislation, awaiting presidential endorsement before it becomes law, also stipulates a prison sentence of between six months and three years for those found guilty of identifying as LGBTQ+.

Kusi says the bill’s passing forced him to cut the schedule short, to just one private screening for prominent art and film figures. It was shown on 6 March, Ghana’s independence day, at a venue in Accra, but Kusi has no idea if it will ever reach a wider audience.

“I was nervous, I was anxious because of the bill,” Kusi says. “The safety of my cast and crew kept me up at night.

“We considered that it was safer to just have one night. We didn’t go big because it didn’t feel safe to screen a film with a queer character in Ghana around the time this bill was passed.”

Nyame Mma tells the story of Kwamena (played by Kobina Amissah-Sam), who moves away from home to live in Bolgatanga, a town in northern Ghana, because of family friction over his sexuality. After the sudden death of his father, the 30-year-old queer man returns home to Sekondi, in the country’s south-west.

There, he meets his estranged lover, Maroof (played by Papa Osei A Adjei), who, under intense societal pressures, is about to marry a woman. Kwamena is left grieving not just for his father, but also the loss of Maroof.

In a touch of magical realism, Kwamena, in a dream sequence, meets his father in the afterlife. The film also alludes to Sekondi’s annual masquerade – the Ankos festival – with spirits featuring in surreal episodes.

“Some of the stories we are going to tell are going to be heavily impacted by the bill. It’s stifling to creativity,” Kusi says.

“When this film goes out there at the right time I could spend four to five years in prison because I made a film that acknowledges and highlights marginalised and queer stories.”

The bill, he says, is in contrast with Ghana positioning itself as a tourist destination, particularly after its 2019 Year of Return initiative, designed to encourage the diaspora to come back to the country.

Based in Accra, Kusi, 31, studied broadcast journalism and mass communications at the Ghana Institute of Journalism. He worked as a writer and producer at a local television network before losing his job during the pandemic which led him to focus on film-making.

One of his first major productions was a well-received audio drama called Goodbye, Gold Coast, telling the love story of a Ghanian schoolteacher and her European lover on the eve of Ghana’s independence in 1957..

Finding actors willing to play queer characters was a major challenge during Nyame Mma’s production. Kusi choose straight actors because “if I had to cast queer actors then they would have to go in hiding”.

“People read the script and said beautiful things about it but said they can’t act the role,” he says.

“Growing up, every single time I have seen a queer representation in a Ghanian film it’s been in negative light. You’ll see them at the end of the film giving their life to Christ, or they’re probably on the bed dying from some STDs. I felt that shouldn’t be the only real representation, so I tried to create positive characters.”

The existing colonial-era gay sex law in Ghana, which carries a prison sentence of three years, has recently led to arrests. In 2021, a group of 16 women and five men were arrested in southeastern Ghana after attending a meeting for LGBTQ+ advocates, in a case that attracted global attention – however a few months later they were acquitted.

“The [new] bill is targeting and criminalising all aspects of nonconformity,” Kusi says.

Human rights groups have been urging the president, Nana Akufo-Addo, not to sign the bill into law. One, Outright International, says it would “lead to a surge in violence and human rights violations against LGBTQ persons in Ghana”, including “an increased risk of mob attacks, physical and sexual violence, arbitrary arrests, blackmail, online harassment, forced evictions, homelessness, and employment discrimination”.

But Kusi points out it is election year in Ghana, and the season for populist policies.

“The only thing that unites Ghanians, no matter what political party, or religion, is homophobia,” Kusi says.

“Homophobia makes it really hard for people to think clearly. It obstructs your reasoning.”

 

cross-posted from: https://kbin.social/m/worldnews@lemmy.ml/t/825753

The country will imprison or publicly flog 60 other suspected homosexuals.

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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca to c/moviesuggestions@lemmy.world
 

This has a few caveats, you need to know what you're getting into.

This is a low-budget movie about homelessness in Winnipeg (Canada), in the 1990s. It's a "slice of life" movie, meaning that it's not about a tightly written story, but about trying to get a view into the lives of these characters.

It's about the bitter irony of being homeless and trying to sell a heater in order to survive while trying to not freeze.
It's not exciting, but it is my favourite holiday movie.

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