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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

So Birdie did her big brag tour of the renovation yesterday, why are we meant to care about a rich person getting a $50k (plus all the freebies she got handed to her!!!!) renovation done to their home especially around the holidays when so many are struggling to provide for their families?? And so many people don’t even have homes?? Like are we meant to feel bad she had to get this done because of “water” damage yet ended up with half a new house because of it? Like so sorry for your itty bitty water damage and the renovation putting your living space out of use for a few months 🙄

Please admire all our fabulous new upgrades and features while you’re all struggling to put gifts under the tree! Isn’t it all so wonderful??? And while you’re at click all my links and get a discount on expensive appliances!

God I hate her so much!!!! She’s so out of touch with reality.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 19 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

How are her followers not sick of seeing her go on like her 10th gifted trip this year? How are people okay with this nonsense while most people can’t afford to go on any trips? And she gets to bring her whole family plus the parents!! This is her what 5th trip in the last month? It’s ridiculous that people are okay with watching this and support it.

Like yes let’s be excited seeing someone who can afford their own trips get handed another trip right after showing off their massive home renovation! Yay for her!!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

When people are not even being able to afford Christmas this year and she does this shit. She’s the grossest person ever.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The sad reality is that influencer marketing works. There is a reason why “keeping up with Jones” is a saying. People will over extend their finances to go on this Disney trip to try to get a taste of what they see portrayed online by the likes of Sarah. For the followers who haven’t seen through her ugliness they see a survivor - an ED, body issues, perinatal depression, PMDD, breast cancer scare - and if Sarah can do all this and thrive they just need to figure out how to get a piece of it. There is no way an influencer like Sarah and her agency aren’t dialed into this formula and know they are getting richer off of others hurts, fears and sadness.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

And she acts like she’s doing this trip for her followers 😂 “any questions you have I will ask and learn for you!” Wow great, nobody can afford it in this economy you bozo. This trip is for you and you alone, you don’t care about learning lol.

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[–] frosty_ad_3723@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I give it a couple of months - it will look like a cluttered mess again!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

In my opinion it already feels too cluttered in the living room

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

It looks like a hotel or an office area. Not like a home. I guess it is a show room for her social media. Sad. No real style.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I guess the NFL isn’t paying for fake fan posts today?

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

UNBELIEVABLE!!!! Why are we sending this family free food???!! They can afford to go grocery shopping and buy their own food, they also have all the time in the world to cook their own food in their brand new kitchen!! She says she donates, why doesn’t she donate this abundance of food to people in need? She’s the most selfish woman on earth!

This company needs to be messaged. Why are they sending her free food when so many people are struggling?

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

What a kick to the gut. We and so many are struggling to make it to payday for groceries with Christmas in a few weeks… while I’m working full-time with those who are quite literally unhoused and experiencing poverty and HUNGRY, and she just giggles about how thankful she is for a free freezer full of food…as if she can’t just order it her damn self. She was also gifted free appliances she could use to cook her family meals with food she could afford to purchase. I'm so glad my heart isn't isn't as fucked up as hers. This is truly sickening. Let them eat cake, I guess

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[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She’s absolutely despicable!! And the free products and money keep rolling in so she just doesn’t care. She feels untouchable because she continues to get away with all of the disgusting things she does and says. She still could’ve donated that freezer full of food. I’m going to message the company too.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

This really got to me. How can she be so ignorant to post this?! Yesterday she posted about Giving Tuesday because it was trendy. Today she’s bragging about being gifted food she does not need. She is a disgusting woman.

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She should feel like a p.o.s

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

She’s too busy suffering from panic attacks to care, you should feel like a POS for questioning her during this time!! /s

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

But she doesn’t filter/edit her photos🥸

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Not this cow telling US how to give back on giving Tuesday. This is a woman who has endless funds and gets so much free shit handed to her and she’s telling people how to give back when she literally gives nothing ever. She can say she gives to M4M’s all she wants but she never gives back to her community in the ways she’s telling us to. She’s the worst.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago

On this giving Tuesday, I wish people WOULDN'T give............a F*ck....about her anymore..........

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Of course everyone deserves to go out and have fun but her dressing up in ho style for a party on her part is simply selfish. After all her time away she could stay home with her family. We never see a tradition shared, a new one started or any time that Sarah gives of herself and yet she gets celebrated for her hobby parenting. She’s such a selfish hag.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

How rude, she put up all her gifted Christmas decor yesterday in her newly gifted living area in her gifted Xmas sweater! She deserved to go out and be a ho! 🙄🙄🙄

But no I totally agree. Most families probably have nice Saturday evening traditions but not Sarah, she just flies off or goes out and only cares about herself having fun and leaving Shane behind to watch the family and feed them etc. since it prob took her hours to make herself over.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

You know it took her hours! That contouring needs to be working for when she’s out in public.

Sarah’s approach to life has gone too far in the space of not letting wife or mother be her identity. She puts no effort into bonding with her family. Her identity is her beauty standard approved face and her body. But she is not a world changer - Sarah is a bored privileged suburban house wife who ate her feelings because she is incapable of building healthy relationships with anyone, even her children. An activist or champion of change shines a light on everyone impacted by body image or self love. Sarah only highlights things that affect her. Her whole identity on line is about herself. She does not give a shit about anyone else.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

He’s at home pitching a tent over the hands free garbage 🗑️

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

She can show up online sexualizing herself at her Ho parties and every other day for that matter but you’ll quickly get a warning on Reddit if you talk about it.

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

Panic attacks??? Give me a f*cking break you ignorant tone deaf idiot. I am never one to minimize mental health, but let’s be real here. A lot of mental health issues stem from financial burden, or employment. This woman has a free ride DAILY!!! Her Ring camera must be going insane with all the gift deliveries from a plethora of companies. She barely parents her children and gets flown around the globe on GIFTED lifetime opportunities yet here she is “woe is me” F$ck off Sarah. F&ck off.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (9 children)

Of course, she got called out yesterday for being a greedy bitch and now she needs to remind everyone how she’s a fragile lil baby and you better not hurt her feelings. Well she can go cry in her newly renovated kitchen, into her freezer full of food and then on her way to her free cruise on Sunday. What a rough life for poor lil Sarah! She gets everything in the world handed to her on a silver platter but still has to pull out the mental health card when the fire gets a little too hot, well I don’t feel sorry for her at all. Her life is just a hollow miserable shell underneath a pile of free crap.

God her sad, tired, woe is me face makes me so mad. She’s such a fake. She’s having a bad day so she’ll sit on the sofa filming her kids, watch Xmas movies and prob order takeout (since god forbid she cook or use her free meals) and that’s that. Must be nice.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

She possesses one of the most smug ass faces I have ever seen.

[–] bunniculamonroe@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Even during a "mental health crisis" she is still smug. Almost like she knows that people won't say anything negative to her when she is having these crises.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I truly can’t stand it. You can just see the smug and see she’s faking it.

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This is what happens when she sees the Guelph Reddit and knows how people in her community really think of her. When she walks down the mall, HomeSense, Tim Hortons in her community, she's not a celeb she thinks she is. Everybody is watching her, but not in the way she wants and thinks. She's the person who has screwed somebody they know over, stabbed them in the back, walked over them to get where she is. She isn't self made, she's a convenience friend, to get what she wants, then ditches you. She seems to forget how small Guelph actually is and that people who she went to school and church with truly know her, who she is and what she's done to people. Knowing her stories of upbringing, school and first marriage are all BS.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yep - need to rest up inside the house all day so I can hide away from the community

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

Ya and have her teenage daughter take the little one out to play in the snow and make memories while mom films it from the door 😒

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago

Awe, another timely performance playing the mental health card. That pesky cat hitting shit down the stairs again. At least it wasn’t someone breaking into the house that she so recklessly doesn’t keep the location of private.

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

As usual when she’s called out about anything she’s done, there’s a mental health post! So manipulative! And a lot of people commented that she would do this and sure enough… she’s just awful!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I’ll give her props for this move. Maybe she doesn’t care as much because her husband is a doctor? I still find her annoying af though 🤣 Birdie could never.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

Just because she’s not sharing affiliate links, doesn’t mean she’s still not grifting free shit from businesses. But at least she feels better about herself by trying to pull one over on people

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Intrigued that Sarah’s BFF Alice is still in TO and didn’t get to be Sarah’s +1 for the ho party. I hope her “friends” are starting to see how ugly she is.

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)
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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Donates my ass. As if she needed to keep these.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Then this face. ICK, this is the face I literally cannot stand 😤😤😤

Hi im Sarah and I’m a fame hungry, greedy, freeloading, entitled, absent mother (but also uses “motherhood” as one of my platforms) and I love myself and alllllllllll the free gifts I get in life. God I can’t stand this ignorant woman. If tone deaf were a person……..

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

They need to have a meeting for a family trip? I can only assume it’s gifted and she has a meeting with whoever is giving it to her 🙄

I’m so sick of this shit. She’s gone on so many trips this year, went to Disney as a family to escape the renovations, and now they’re likely being gifted another trip? On top of their renovation, all the gifted shit she’s gotten this year. It’s sick.

She can hardly even force this smile bc her face is so frozen

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Not on the agenda: using any of our new appliances. Back inside where I can kick off my new "Muck-Lucks" and get back into my Mickey crap!

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago

But of course....supporting Indigenous communities (Insert photo at the event ignoring the Indigenous performer while scrolling her phone)

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Why couldn't they send $250 waterproof winter boots to ANY OTHER family - like a family that isn't walking into a home that has thousands upon thousands of dollars of fresh renovations in it, and is walking into say a food bank or something - come on!! It really hurts to say it but I truly never thought I could feel disappointed in an Indigenous company.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

THIS!!! There are so many people in need but no let’s give to a family who just had a multiple thousand dollar renovation done to their home and goes on multiple trips a year.

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