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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Why is she so obsessed with trying to convince us her man is cool? Me thinks the lady doth protest too much. Maybe cause I'm used to my latin culture, but umm, that man couldn't dance at all? Ok, he could blow a conch, so can small children. And he is NOT part of any boat crew. He's a landlocked suburban dork with dainty hands and one pair of shorts. He talks to her with disdain and like she's an idiot and she giggles about it. Couldn't be me.

I don't even feel bad snarking on him cause he's complacent in all her shitty behavior just to ride the gravy train.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

🤣 a landlocked suburban dork with dainty hands and one pair of shorts 💀

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

And one pair of jeans… you can’t forget those

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

Emotional support jorts lol

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I was legit JUST coming to post about how it’s only ever on vacation that she has to flaunt how happy and in love they are and how much he loves her body etc. She never acts like this at home. I swear she’s only happy in her relationships with her husband and even her kids when they’re on vacation/away from home. Like here’s another smug staged pic that they’re so in love and HA sucks for you haters. Like Jfc go take care of your kid for once.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It seems like once or twice a year Shane plays content husband. Remember Sarah’s Christmas of gifts of experiences or stuff - I think she makes him do this as her gift. That or he’s high.

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He can blow a conch so well because he’s used to blowing smoke up her ass

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I used to like her but her authenticity is LONG GONE. Not sure who she thinks she is but she’s realllllly trying hard to be a celebrity. I’m quite frankly sick and tired of the free ride she’s getting - and for what? Being a phoney “body positivity” advocate? She’s full of Botox, fillers and cosmetic procedures, fake hair, fake nails, and the list goes on. Ffs be a mother to your baby!! Put your toddler in a program with other kids!! That poor kid lives in the Nana K bubble and maybe gets to go to Disney a couple times a year 🤦🏻‍♀️ My friend reached out to the bird to advertise her children’s clothing line - remember when the bird was all about “SUPPORT LOCAL”?? Ya well she will only support you if you pay her 25K USD PER STORY!! Plus free merchandise. EW, how disgusting she is!!!

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[–] AlwaysMissing0@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

She’s more than 7000 kms away from her child, and yet she’s still exploiting her for content. This woman makes me sick. Imagine torturing that child with FaceTime calls with her faveourire characters, so she can show us all what a wonderful mother she is. Disgusting! 🤮

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago

She makes me so mad. It feels like she’s gaslighting her own child, how sick is that? “You couldn’t come away with mommy and daddy, but here’s your fave Disney characters through a screen. Aren’t I a great mommy?”.

Leave the poor girl alone. You didn’t take her on the trip, just let her enjoy her day with someone who actually wants to be with her.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

Sweet L only knows life through screens. When Sarah is home with her she’s also always talking at her through the phones camera. This is next level ignorant for this grown woman to be flaunting her fun at her kid.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Is she gonna say she hates you guys or something? Like wtf is this. This is her way of justifying that it’s okay to keep ditching her little one 4 times in the last week? And I’m sure another Disney trip is incoming 🙄

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago

Always with the psychotic look

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Another family trip?? Amazing. Remember back in August how she claimed it was going to be their last family trip because M was going to University?

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It’s insufferable!!! She’s probably taking them to Paris so she can have her picture with the castle.

How many times do they need to go away? Her carbon footprint is becoming insane. She seems to think she needs to buy her families love instead of just spending time at home infront of the tree and just enjoying each others company. The only way she spends time with her kids if when it’s doing experiences and pulling them around for content.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

She gets worse by the day. I wonder how many trips can be crammed into December? It is her bday month after all. That psychotic smile really looks like the face of someone struggling.

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's exactly what she is trying to do. See? L is so happy for them! She doesn't have to feel guilty. Was L happy for her when she went to LA too? And NYC?

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (6 children)

As if a little person can process all that? She just thinks it’s normal to be left behind.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Now she has L FaceTiming with Goofy. Sorry you couldn’t come sweetie but look how great I am getting you on FaceTime with a character 🙄 and the fact she makes Shane film her doing this, no private moments here.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

This is manipulation at its finest. It’s like teasing a child. What sicko would do that?!?! “Look at how much fun we are having without you, at a place you would love”

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

AGREED. She’s a terrible person. I just can’t imagine going to a Disney resort, meeting characters, seeing a Disney movie, all without your 3 year old who you’ve made love all of these things.

[–] Kar@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yes! I wouldn’t do that trip without her but if for some reason I did, the 3 year old would never know where I was and what I did.

Poor kid is isolated from the world, left with Nana in no activities or preschool, and then is manipulated by her mom as Birds swings from neglectful to fawning over L and back to neglectful again. Birds’ mask is slipping big time these days, she has no one to mirror because no one behaves like this - so we are seeing the act all unravel.

Can see why she has to keep L isolated. Even 3 year olds at daycare would not understand why their friend’s mom went to a Disney Resort without her and would for sure say as much directly to L.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sarah knows it’s slipping - that’s why she showed everyone in an underwear post that while primping and packing she took a min to play with her kid. It made me think of someone taking a moment for a game of fetch, she does the least.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She absolutely knows it's slipping and as much as she's saying that SO many good things are coming her way, it's the opposite. There's so much desperation in all of her posts these days because she knows people are uninterested in her anymore and they are starting to see through her - including her "friends" circles. Notice how there's a lot of new users here and on Reddit, knowing a LOT about her? It's no coincidence. They're all mean girls, even to eachother. Everybody is over S and her delusional family that supports her.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

And every event she goes to know she has to thank her ‘followers’. Guilt tripping people to stick around and see her overconsumption.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago

So well said 👏🏻👏🏻 I’ll never get over how isolated they have L, sure NK may provide an educational day for her but I think it’d be so nice for her to spread her wings with kids her own age. But like you said, she doesn’t want other parents and other kids fo see how neglectful she is when she’s never there to drop or pick her up.

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[–] frosty_ad_3723@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago

That’s just cruel. Leave the kid alone at this point.

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[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don’t watch her “stories/lies” anymore. What was her reasoning for not taking Lemon with them? I am assuming a Disney event is kid friendly 🤔 They can take a trip together anywhere, anytime they want.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

She didn't address it. I was also waiting to hear her "explanation". I don't see a reason why she couldn't have tagged along, even at her own expense if that's what it came down to. I assume she didn't want to be bothered with her.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She could have brought her chronically ill hard working nana on the trip to hang with L. Sunshine is good for everyone. Sarah only spends her money on herself. Sarah is always sitting on her ass - for those of us who have cared for preschoolers that’s not the gig.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I wonder if nana has to babysit the oh so important tamagotchi

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago

I bet she was allowed to bring her but Sarah just didn’t want to have to deal with her much like her excuse that she was “too little” for the NYC event. She wouldn’t be able to film videos about how much Shane loves her cellulite that she erases daily and how in love they are if she had to take care of L during it.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Do her followers not see how she looks nothing like how she portrays online? Or are They too busy blowing smoke up her ass?

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Real life Disney Princess 😵‍💫🤮

ETA: I feel this is as close to her real face as we see?

[–] spicychickensoup@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Bear with me here. I’m learning how to use this site. But what in the fresh hell is going on with her legs? Left leg vs right - or am I receiving it this way? 😒

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago

She looks high AF again. Those eyes are empty

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Bird trying to dance is like watching a baby giraffe attempting to walk for the 1st time.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

Sometimes I swear she just acts like that on purpose, like how can someone be so goddamn incompetent in everything they do?

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"OMG honey! Look how much fun we are having here without you! You would have LOVED it here, but we don't care that much about you. But don't worry, I'll bring you back another stuffie to make up for it and post the affiliate link. What's that? (NK whispering to L) You're happy for us and think I'm pretty? Good content baby.....errr...I mean, I think you're alright too"

[–] AlwaysMissing0@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago

Pulls in the jowls.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Bird should get one of these ornaments added to her tree.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

In case anyone was wondering Sarah would like you all to know that this roomy dress is from before L was born. This is Sarah’s version of a before and after, look, it fits. 🙄

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She’s sad she doesn’t have an affiliate anymore. She honestly thinks people would die without an affiliate on every single things she wears/has. Delusional.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago

I need the masterminds at Instagram to tell me how many DMs there are truly asking for links.

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[–] Blaze@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Sorry everyone, I've changed accounts and didn't follow this community on the new one 😅

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