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[–] janet_catcus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 19 hours ago

i like your funky glasses :D

[–] WaxedWookie@lemmy.world 12 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Hell yeah!

Well intentioned cis outsider here, so I hope this comes across in the spirit it's intended.

For better or worse, I can imagine that this decision would ironically make many people more comfortable, as they wouldn't experience the same level of perceived gender ...dissonance(?). Whatever the case, you don't need me to tell you that it's certainly not your job to adjust your identity or presentation to please people, and it's a rad look - I don't think I could help but take a bit of an admiring look tbh.

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[–] celeste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 17 hours ago

Those glasses are cool!

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 20 hours ago

Fuck yeah! I'm here for it

[–] Makhno@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago

I'm cis, and I hate any type of attention, so I'm with you!

Plus, you look great!

[–] kertain@sh.itjust.works 15 points 20 hours ago

Yup I agree with glasses comment, I dig them!

Being cis I can't say I am bothered in the slightest, but sorry most people make you feel that way. Terrible that is the culture we have currently.

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 14 points 19 hours ago (7 children)

I love your look! Is that purple(?) thing like basically sleeves with a hoodie you pop over things? Whatever it is, it's fab and I want one.

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Seconding. Love plague doc asthetic.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

That’s actually my wife (not pictured) who rolls that aesthetic. I just try to dress like the protagonist of a yet-unreleased Final Fantasy. :D

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[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 9 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

Joke's on you, I try staunchly and vehemently not to look at cis people too.

PS: Amazing drip

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

Everything I’ve got is drip. Nothing casual. 180mph, all the time, all gas no brakes.

[–] TheWilliamist@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago

I dig the glasses!

[–] Lemjukes@lemm.ee 4 points 17 hours ago

Gorgeous! Love the asymmetrical lenses

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 17 hours ago

Questioning my cisosity because you have a look so endlessly fascinating i could stare all day

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago

I guess I fall outside cisdom, but your kit would have me staring unsubtly!

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