Wow, this is a wake up call. I have been wasting my time on this .bashrc file.

And the notion of what is looking good and bad is a result of heavily sexualized norms that are fed into girls at a young age already. In the effect women who chose not to wear makeup are facing backlash and are made to feel less confident.

So it isn't just a fun hobby. It is also the expression and often submission to sexualized and sexist societal norms.

Didn't had the fun to mess with my .bashrc, but I have to mess with the jdk-openjdk and the jre-openjdk package, which are in conflict. All help I found online didn't work.

Wow, seems like you are the only reasonable person on lemmy. Kudos!

Users here love to hate other platforms for their hostile comments but continue to create an equally toxic environment just with a different flavor.

As long as people have fun and don’t hurt anybody, let them roam.

Seriously. I'm sure some people will hyperfixate on the lipstick/rouge example you gave, but generally many guys don't understand or think about makeup and thus have no awareness of how it impacts how they're attracted to people. And then they have the gall to lecture others about what works and what doesn't.

Also shoutout to some of the straight up sexist replies in this thread. Nice to see a sizable chunk of reddit neckbeards made their way over here.

You raise an interesting point. Are women's preferences in how they look organically theirs? Or is it conditioned over time by patriarchal beauty standards? Like, why do women actually like long lashes? If long lash products didn't exist, would women go out of their way to invent them?

You cannot not communicate, the societal notion as to which is "good looks" for women is strongly sexualized and children are exposed to these notions from an early age. Also the subtle or less subtle social pressure plays a big role in it. A friend of mine moved from a "posh" city to mine. She said she didn't dare going out without putting on makeup for two hours because she would get bad looks in the street otherwise and it took her a long time to unlearn that.

So while it isn't women wearing make up because they want to fuck, the social construction that makes them feel less confident and less comfortable without make up is revolving around that and it is part of the problem. It is not that women just feel more confident with make up. It is that they feel less confident without it, because they are pressured to feel so.

Never underestimate how insanely cool a lat pump looks.

The thing with this is, that only big lats don't make you look good. Having no lats but being very trained is also bad. It's about symmetry. If you need bigger lats for a good symmetry, than bigger lats wil let you look better.

This site is becoming the same kind of mysognistic reddit was.

It's not and that's completely fair but when it gets to this come on