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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by herrwoland@lemmy.world to c/me_irl@lemmy.world
 

(original art by Herta Burbe)

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[–] RedditWanderer@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

The people on the couch don't exist. It's an unrealistic expectation nobody actually has.

Edit: the unrealistic part is that they have so few corners to fit and they fit perfectly. It's more complicated than that.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I don't quite agree. Yes, it's not as pronounced as it is displayed here, but there's still definitely a difference in statistical compatibility amount. If you have a very unusual life situation, with a non-neurotypical mental structure, the amount of compatible partners gets smaller and smaller compared to people that have a more "common" (specifically not using the word normal here) setup going.

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 1 points 6 months ago

LGBTQ+ and non standard life situation gets ya basically zero partners, too. The dating pool for MLM is already tiny compared to cishet dating. Add into that being a caregiver for your parents and it's basically zero dudes that are willing to even consider you as a partner. :/ But I ain't throwing mama under the bus (or from the train) for no dick. Lol

[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Don't crop out the artist.

This was clearly made by Herta Burbė, by the way.

[–] herrwoland@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Hey thanks for mentioning the artist, I found this online and didn't have any idea who it was, I'll update the description

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Just recently moved and I don't have a roommate here yet. He's moving in at the end of the month. It's just me and my cat and I'm incredibly lonely. I'm lying in bed feeling like shit and depressed right now and she's on her lil bed attached to my bed because she might as well be a fuzzy shadow. Can honestly say I'd have killed myself without her because she's the only reason I'm not dead right now

[–] Spider89@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Hang in there, buddy.

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca -1 points 6 months ago

So he fucks his dog?

[–] Underwaterbob@lemm.ee -1 points 6 months ago

The notion of there being someone out there who matches you perfectly or completes you is bullshit. Relationships are complex things that require hard work and compromise if you want then to work.

This is some whiny, self-pity emo cringe and is frankly insulting to people who have made relationships work like the two on the couch who I guarantee you didn't just fit together easily without the aforementioned hard work and compromise.

Or it's just a comic about a fucked up dog.