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Femcel Memes

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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

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[–] TragicNotCute@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Usually I kinda get the vibe for these memes, this one…confuses me.

[–] hasnt_seen_goonies@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I will admit I don't fully understand the meme, but I will say that these are pictures of an internet personality called finnster (sp?) who was a male presenting streamer who opened a place for people to donate money for him to do challenges, and one of them was for him to dress as a woman. His community donated that he was dressed as a woman for... Longer than a year I think? Anyway, he didn't change his voice at all and before this meme I had heard that he said he wasn't trans, and this was just how he dressed as a commitment to the bit. Being genderfluid might have changed the preferred pronouns of finnster, but I am unaware.

[–] nicki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Finn came out as genderfluid some time ago and as for the pronouns ... on twitter it says her pronouns are he/him. He prefers being refered to with "he".

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Vibe of half of this comment:Vee from the Boiling Isles, protectively shouting to someone out of frame:"Her pronouns are They/Them!!!"

Ok, I recognize the genderfluid identity means many different pronouns might be ok, but your sentence

on twitter it says her pronouns are he/him

is just funny to me.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I think she would agree. I legit change the pronouns I use for him mid sentence.

[–] flicker@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Did the internet force femme someone and I didn't even get to watch in real-time? Damn!

[–] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Finn was definitely a little experimental/gender-open compared to the average cis man. Even having a "dress up as a girl full time" donation goal is pretty... Not cis sounding.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah. A Q&A vid from 2017 when he had like 10k subs has her wearing make-up and jokingly saying "no" when asked if they were a man. Even their minecraft avatar isn't particularly gendered. She didn't post an Omegle troll video on an unadvertised second channel for money. He didn't start streaming for money. F1nn actually thought no one would watch it and they'd be done with it in a month, but no such luck.

He sometimes talks about whether or not they'd present fem if it wasn't for streaming. She doubts that he would, but I feel like it might be the opposite. If F1nn didn't have the excuse of money to fall back on, the egg might have cracked sooner.

Transfems often enjoy force fem fantasies because they take the difficult decision out of our hands. Being able to point to an external force helps us not question our identity while still feeling euphoric. It protects us from admitting that we really want it.

Despite being out as trans, F1nn still has mega imposter syndrome. It's amazing how someone can claim they don't experience euphoria while admitting she feels so much more comfortable with his appearance now. If F1nn didn't have a monetary incentive, they wouldn't have as many excuses.

I've followed F1nn for a long time, and I honestly thought he was cis until late 2022. I think genderfluid is a totally accurate label for her, but it might just be hard for them to accept. I've certainly had imposter syndrome about being bi, as being totally gay or totally straight is an easier narrative. The truth just isn't simple sometimes.

[–] scutiger@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have they actually announced their pronouns as she/her? I haven't watched in a while, but last I did, it was still he/him. I know they still make no attempt to use a feminine voice, but I also don't know if there's any intention to start either.

[–] Womdat10@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

They've said they go by any pronouns but prefer he/him

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

Ngl, memes with vibes I can't articulate are my favorite

[–] odium@programming.dev 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Nomecks@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That must be wrong. I've never seen a man's man that I'd like to have a beer with more!

[–] tyler@programming.dev 1 points 1 month ago

Is this a Wirtual quote? I’m pretty sure he said that at one point lol.

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Ah yes, F1nncel, the hot-girl-fluid man with the girlfriend

[–] UsernameIsTooLon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

That has a girl cock lol

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is finn on hrt? Goddamn, I'm jealous

[–] Klaymore@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] watersnipje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Ah! So there’s the unsurprising video that I guess everyone was expecting at this point. Aww 🥰 I love that his parents were in it too.

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

what happened to blahaj D:

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's actually an ever growing pile of multiple blahajs

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

why so squished and sad though :(

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

F1nn is terrified of haj, so she relegated them to a corner where the alpaca keeps them in line.

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

poor haj :(

[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Does F1nister always had long hair or they're using a wing?

[–] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wig until they grew their hair out long enough, which is where we see now

[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 0 points 1 month ago (2 children)

F1nnister goes hy they/them?

[–] megopie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

In twitter bio it says “her pronouns are He/him 👉🌶️”

So, like, take that as you will. Finnster is a living meme, creating gender chaos for shits and giggles.

[–] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago

My understanding is "any pronouns", and in those cases I tend to either use they/them or the pronoun of the gender they weren't assigned at birth. Partly since I know many trans people will say "any pronouns" then later rescind the ones they were assigned at birth.