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One of my most hated things in the dying days of Reddit is people having to put the /s because of all the mass down voting from users that didn't get a post was a joke.

When I came here it seemed that wasn't the case but I've noticed over the last month a lot of users using it or having -28 points for an off the cuff comment.

I might be just be a bit too bothered by the need to use it.

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[–] norimee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Adding the /s is also about accessibility and inclusion since written sarcasm is much harder to read and especially difficult for neurodiverse people.

I can imagine that the percentage of ND reddit and lemmy user are higher than in the general population.

So by refusing to use /s you are actually cutting a big part of lemmy users out of the conversation.

[–] sirico@feddit.uk 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Others mentioned this I started using it since

[–] norimee@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Sorry, I didn't see this post is 4 months old. I don't know why it showed up in my feed...

Anyways, good on you to take this information into account and changing things.

[–] sirico@feddit.uk 1 points 2 months ago

I don't think there's anything wrong with posting on an older thread, your comment had good info

[–] A_A@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Here you are addressing people from all over the world : they have different cultures, backgrounds, perspectives ... and some of us didn't have time to take our first coffee before reading your writings !
So, be indulgent and take this smallest of efforts to add this "/s” please. I for one will be thankful 😌

[–] Nighed@sffa.community 1 points 6 months ago

There are too many idiots around to assume sarcasm . (Definition of idiot may differ depending on political affinity)

[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The voting behaviour around here is .. interesting.

As for the /s, that's because of how humans communicate. Most of our context cues are subliminal, facial expression, tone of voice, body language, eye movement, etc. These account for the bulk of the actual message.

In text based communication like this, those cues are missing entirely. We use emojis and smiley face brackets to give a clue to what is going on.

Then there's the language barrier, people come from different countries with different languages, but also different cultural ideas of what's funny and what isn't. You can tell when you start looking into swearing for example. The Dutch hurl contagious diseases at each other, the Italians diss each others mother, Australians use body parts.

Sarcasm is a special form of interaction, straddling truth and disbelief in some way. It's not universally recognised in the same way since it often triggers off cultural beliefs which vary across the world.

So, to bring all that together, the simple "/s" shows the reader that sarcasm is intended in a more or less universal way. Of course that too has a cultural impact, but that's a rabbit hole I'm not going down today.

[–] thejoker954@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

I'm not liking the voting system so far on lemmy. I've seen too many comments downvoted just because people disagree with the poster's opinion and not because they are trolling or off topic.

I've see it happen on reddit of course but it seems more prevalent here in the short time I've been using it.