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As of today, I have a 1 month old. She is amazing and I love her so much, but she's boring! Don't get me wrong, she's difficult and my wife and I haven't slept a good night in a month, but all she does is eat, sleep, and poop. There's basically no interaction.

I'm so looking forward to being able to laugh with her, play with her, and generally start teaching her the world.

How do you feel? What's your favorite stage of child development?

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[โ€“] orangeNgreen@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I have a toddler (28 months) and an infant (4 months). I do love having conversations with my toddler, seeing her laugh, seeing her play, and watching her grow into a real human.

However, the infant stage, in my opinion, is a million times easier. In between the awesome toddler moments are tantrums, battles to get dressed, refusals to get into the car, etc. I love my toddler more than words. But man, do I just want her take longer naps sometimes!

[โ€“] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

My experience is completely anecdotal, so may not apply. Your toddler is like 2.5 years. I found it hard around that age, but after calmly setting boundaries, explaining why and being open to negotiation, at around 3 it became super easy.

Tantrums for my kid are 99% of the time just because he's hungry. I just explain this to him during and after the tantrum. Like "so you were really sad before, but after eating you're happy now right? Do you think that would help next time you are sad?" Now he will sometimes tell me he's just super hungry when he's upset.

Other than playing with him which I enjoy, he's like 70% in auto pilot.