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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 3 months ago

If I am asked politely, with a please and thank you, to do something I have no problem with it 99% of the time.

But if you just drop hints, are rude AF, or straight up demand something, even if I get the hint it makes me not want to do whatever it is you want.

[–] tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

People who scoff or laugh a little and want you to ask what's so funny or interesting. Not on the Spektrum but I ignore them because I hate that shit.

[–] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Would you rather they tell you umprompted, or keep it to themselves?

[–] tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Either is ok. Just not trying to... idk socially manipulate me into asking them so they can tell me something. I don't know how common that is tbh, only had two colleagues like that so far, it just annoys me.

[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Sometimes I pretend to take sarcasm or joke statements seriously because I don't know how to react to it otherwise.

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Me too. Also I'll often do the opposite where I make a joke but with no tone change to indicate it as such. People will either get mad at me for being wrong or else they will praise my brilliant deadpan humour.

[–] KammicRelief@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

haha same! Half the time I'm a comedic genius, and the other half, I look like an idiot. (ok, maybe it's 60/40. or 5/95.)