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[โ€“] LapGoat@pawb.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

you guys are having relationships??

[โ€“] xeddyx@lemmy.nz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This. Reading this thread makes me sad and wonder where I went wrong in life.

Maybe I shouldn't have chosen IT as a career. Or maybe my parents shouldn't have sent me to an all-boys school, which made me shy and awkward around girls even in my later years. Maybe I should've fooled around in my college and uni days, instead of concentrating on my studies. What did all my efforts get me? What was I even working so hard for? Forget being in a relationship, I haven't even kissed a girl yet. Sigh.

[โ€“] akulium@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

None of these things are wrong. Work on your issues in the present, not the ones in the past.