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Porn in theory I have zero issues with, sex work is work. My issue is the content and the fact it's not well regulated.
Content... there's so much choking, violence, verbal abuse and sexual assault/incest. What really concerns me is I've never seen a film where they discuss boundaries and safewords at the start. It takes under a minute! "I'm so horny! Just fyi I don't do ABC but love DEF. Safeword is pineapple. What about you?" Choking is a known danger flag in DA and its being normalised in porn with no safety net.
Then there's the type of sex. People are fetishised a lot ("exotic", trans etc) which is dangerous. Anal is everywhere, and IME a lot of young people think they HAVE to do it. So much porn is the man jack hammering away and I've NEVER known a woman that's liked that start to finish in sex. Shaved or at least styled vaginas are expected, and theres rarely condoms. What kind of ideas are young people getting about what's normal in sex?
The industry isn't well regulated. You regularly see videos where people look at best uncomfortable, and they're often really young. There's a lot of abuse in the industry and it's really not ok.
I do wonder, if it wasn't young women at risk, would there be more action?
I spent entirely too long trying to figure out what those acronyms stood for. 🤦♀️
Airways, Breathing, Circulation and Diesel Exhaust Fluid
They love choking on exhaust foomes
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