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Unassuming word for people I have sex with (feddit.de)
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I called some people I'm seeing partners, but got scolded by a friend because I guess partner means a relationship that's more "serious". My friend suggested calling them lovers.

I'm emotionally involved with all my people and I care about them. I just get an ick from labels and relationship ladders (abusive family).

I'm looking for a word that's unassuming, but clearly says "I'm not single" so I can easily be honest with monogamous people.

Any suggestions? Lover sounds a little too much like cheating.

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[–] ProfAel 1 points 3 weeks ago

You could say that you are in romantic relationships. It needs to be a term you and the people you are with like. If you agree together, that you like the term Partner, then you can totally use it.