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Is there an age where you decide to just 'let it go'? (kbin.melroy.org)

submitted 14 hours ago by NeoToasty@kbin.melroy.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Not talking suicide. But, I mean more like an age where you know you won't be dating anybody and that you don't care if you let some of your health slide. Get a little chubby, drink some beers that you never did before, smoke like you never did before when you spent years avoiding the stuff when you were younger.

Stuff like that. I think I might get into smoking when I'm more into my 40s or something. I don't care, life would've long pass me by then, it isn't like I'm going to be a successful individual at 55 or something.

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[–] Faydaikin@beehaw.org 5 points 13 hours ago

I don't think there's a set age for that. It's probably more of a mindset thing.

I drink, smoke and eat what I want, when I want. Gave up on chasing a new relationship and although it does get a bit lonely and I miss intimacy, I'd say I'm pretty happy where I am.

But yeah, I am in my 40's and have been around the block a few times, so it's not like I've missed out on anything.

But who knows? I might change my mind at some point. I was never too good with monotony and even this level careless freedom might grow stale in time.