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So... How was your weekend? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Kimdracula@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Mine? As miserable as ever. My little bro wanted to go to a little comic con thing, is just not my vibe, felt surrounded by people in weird costumes is just... Thankfully I was there for like half an hour.

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[–] tamal3@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"Making fun" isn't quite right, but they were definitely being sarcastic. I think people throughout this thread are encouraging you to be less self-absorbed so that you can 1. Enjoy things around you without feeling like you're being judged for it, and 2. Develop empathy for those you interact with.

I know it seems trite, but it's important to realize that social interactions are way more fun if you pay attention to other people and are curious about them.

[–] Kimdracula@sh.itjust.works -4 points 4 months ago

It really sounds trite. I just don't think I'll ever change. I'm aware enough that I'm not emphatic. That's just isn't me and I almost never enjoy things, even the things I do for myself.