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[–] exhausted@programming.dev 10 points 1 day ago

People with narcissistic traits often have a stronger drive for sex, but it’s not just about physical pleasure, it’s about the validation and sense of power that comes from being desired. There’s a deep satisfaction in knowing someone craves your presence, seeks you out, and can’t get enough of you. It's that sense of being wanted, admired, and even used that fuels the desire.