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Whats a current obstacle or challenge in your life you'd like to share and have people brainstorm for solutions? (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by cheese_greater@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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If we can avoid massive collective issues that would be appreciated as there is very little agency the individual has to address those and that helpless ess can often extend to the more solvable individual matters we all grapple with but also occasionally rise to conquer.

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[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Malignant compliance maybe? I had a boss who kept nagging me about stuff she didn't even know how to do so I decided to give her my undivided absolute attention calling her every time I was going to do somehing, every time while I was doing it, every time after completing the task and so on.

I did this for a while and only as a last resort because I was fed up with her attitude. It worked like a charm! Lol

[–] gramophone_mind@lemmy.ml 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I think that could be a helpful trick. I noticed someone else in our office did that to that person and this person got quite uncomfortable. :)

[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Cool! Just remember to use it sparingly and not let it become part of your personality.