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Have you ever felt ostracized for being Dad? (feddit.uk)

submitted 8 months ago by Oneeightnine@feddit.uk to c/dads@feddit.uk

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One of the first things I noticed when we embarked on this great adventure was just how tailed to Mum everything seemed to be.

I get it, they're likely to be the ones doing the majority of the caregiving, but still, as a hands-on dad I couldn't help but feel a little...pushed out by things. Nothing massive for sure, but little things like how a good chunk of the online resources are written as if Mum is reading exclusively. Or how pretty much every baby group in my area is advertised as a Mum and Baby group. It's far from the end of the world, but it can be pretty intimidating and unwelcoming to a new Dad.

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[–] diegantobass@lemmy.world 0 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I hear you, and felt it too. And then feminism called and said that's basicaly what it feels like to be a woman, always.

[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Look, I see the point you're making, and it's technically probably true. However, it's never appropriate to dismiss somebody's pain, injustice, or exclusion with this type of whataboutism.

I promise our hearts are strong enough to sympathize with multiple problems in the world simultaneously.