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[–] Badeendje@lemmy.world 45 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (26 children)

When they ask you like that.. it's the cue o have a conversation on the F-ing subject. What are your hopes and dreams, kids, quick wedding or elaborate.. you know.. discuss what the future would hold together.

Once you have had those conversations you also know what the answer to a proposal will be.

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

To me. They are asking you to propose. If they want to have a conversation there have the fucking conversation. Don’t play games. No one can read minds.

But it doesn’t matter to me either way. I don’t date. I won’t date. I’m done with dating. And I will never get married.

[–] Badeendje@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

It's not always playing games.. some people also just come out and say it.. others will mask it with a joke... but then the conversation needs to be had. Not always full serious.. we need to talk.. but this is a good cue. As the other poster said .. for both your sakes.

Hope you are OK.. don't know how to read your "I'm don't with it".

[–] MalReynolds@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 month ago

cue, not queue ...

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