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Anyone else struggle with (other people's) birthdays? (feddit.uk)
submitted 2 months ago by Flax_vert@feddit.uk to c/autism@lemmy.world
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Like - what do I write in the card? What the hell do I get them? They come up so quickly as well.

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[โ€“] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.autism.place 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

Cards:

  • write what you like about them
  • add a relevant story you guys share within the last year that reflects that quality of theirs

Gifts:

  • if they tell you they like something throughout the year, add it to a private note to look at during their bday
  • something they would love to have or use but wouldn't spend their own money
  • bonus: relevant to their quality story

Example

Card: Happy birthday! I love how you're always happy, like when we went to the beach and it started raining. Even though we were bummed out, you found a way to make it fun and we had a great time. I hope you receive the same happiness on your birthday that you gave me at the beach.

Gift: The shirt they said they liked at the beach store but didn't buy it for themselves.

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edit: Warning, some people will become upset if they recognize that you follow this/a formula. I haven't figured out a solution to this.

[โ€“] groucho@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 month ago

Better than my method:

  • buy birthday card
  • attempt to write "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!" in it and realize it already says that inside
  • underline "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" and add two more exclamation points
  • "love / sincerely / yours truly /

groucho"

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