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Honestly, I can't bear to imagine the rest of my life dealing with this. Truly, I'll never amount to more than scraping by in life, and it's such a shitty bleak picture. But whatever, I've already mourned for the normal life I'll never lead, and I'll keep doing my best which isn't good enough until everything falls apart completely, then I'll kill myself. Happy Friday!
Go get professional help. This is incredibly disordered thinking.
Not a healthy outlook.
In therapy and on meds, which is why I'm still limping along instead of giving up 👍
Intellectually I don't think there's much point to continuing existence, but working on that in therapy and thanks to medication I'm emotionally disconnected from the depressive Bad Thoughts ™️, so I'm still just going until I can't. The depression can get better but the ADHD can't really.
So, I might not really want to exist, but I feel apathetic about it generally! 🎉
The good thing is that what is considered "being successful" is completely arbitrary and in the grand scheme of things completely irrelevant. You don't need to "be successful" to lead a happy life. This "scraping by" you say is a pretty bleak picture is just so because you think it is, you can be absolutely happy living like that. I hope you'll be able to be happy eventually <3
From a critter in a similar spot (as opposed to some arrogant, condescending prick, which is apparently the norm in this thread), good luck having life! If you figure out a neat secret trick that makes it good, lemme know :P
Won't blame you if you don't, though. Some of us just can't, and no amount of "just get over it" is ever gonna "fix" us so we act like others want us to regardless of what that does to us.