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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 10 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

And that child never touched that bunny toy again lol

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

She has a different one for everyday of the year. The basement toy room is ridiculous.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 6 points 16 hours ago

Birdie obsesses over the stupidest things

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I felt like Sarah was acting all “look how tiny I am laying on a bigger woman” in this video. I can’t stand her.

*not that I think NB is big!! Just pointing out what I thought was going on in Sarah’s head.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

NB is giving In Love with Bird vibes

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago

Very! Apparently this was NB’s idea

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Can she not wear any other earrings now, or does she have to keep wearing those ever since Bailey gave/introduced them to her. They completely clash with her shirt colour imo. She even copied the car visor mirror pictures Bailey takes of herself. New personality she is absorbing I guess!

Also, not surprised to see a baggy shirt chosen

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago

Sarah has posted about being the bigger one and how she hates it. That's why she hangs out with NB.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago

Not a pore in sight.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 days ago

Everything Sarah does is the least, the minimum…no one else is worth any effort. No, it doesn’t really matter what is served at a dinner with friends, but to slap one square of lasagna on a plate says I’m so important, your not, so hers my famous slop. All those people and just one piece each with no bread, or salad looks like skinny mom food rationing from the 90s - no seconds allowed. This whole meal is just seems like some strange scene from a movie.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago (3 children)

L being excited because M and birdshit will be “sleeping” before Christmas, likely meaning they’ll be sleeping there. She’s excited for her to actually be there. M is at school so makes sense. Says a lot.

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Omg I thought the exact same thing when I heard L say this. That says ALOT!!!!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Love how she makes it like Birdie is just there for a sleepover and doesn’t actually live there yikes lol

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I wonder if we will get everyone being filmed consuming this crap so they can confirm how “amazingly delicious” it is 🤣

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

They’ll be trying to hide their disgust the whole time

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Is that cheddar cheese? What in the hamburger helper is this mess!!! That is not lasagna! Or maybe Canadian lasagna? A lasagna noodle does not a lasagna make. What are y’all doing up there.

[–] Coconutcamera11@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago

As a Canadian I can confirm that this is NOT what we would call lasagna. Marble cheese, no parm or ricotta?! Don’t even get me started on the ground turkey that’s potentially past its prime! Just goes to show you how little (proper) hosting she does…barely enough pieces for the number of guests, no sign of bread or a nice salad and you know if she made some we’d be seeing it. 🙄

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago

So crazy. Poor kid is so happy her part time mom has managed to be at home for this long and will be there for Christmas.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

LOL trust me, literally NOBODY wants your grotesque lasagna recipe. Like it couldn’t be more basic, she cooks meat that she probably doesn't season and opens a jar of sauce, why do we need it documented? Lmao. I make a simple lasagna myself but I’m not out here thinking I’m doing something great either lol. I can’t believe she makes her poor family eat this every week. Then she goes on to say “I haven’t written recipes in YEARS” you literally know how to make one thing!!! lol

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

She has nothing to offer. This one strange dish all the time. She is like a child playing dress up with an apron and going to her little toy kitchen set up

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago

Yes, stick to “cooking” in the basement with all the toy kitchens and fake food.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago

Also how difficult is it to write down a recipe, lmao?

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago

As an Italian I can tell you that her “lasagna” is tragic 🤣

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Why utilize all those fancy new appliances and brand new kitchen when you can just buy everything premade 🤔

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Not the half assed, thrown together, overpriced cookie from Longos. Like no effort at all. Could’ve literally grabbed a whole roll of Pilsbury chocolate chip cookie dough for $6. Put it in a round cookie pan for literally 13 mins in her fancy new appliances. It would’ve taken her less time, than driving all the way across town for this. My children could’ve done this. Would’ve even been a fun activity to do with L. But why bother. Shes the epitome of lazy.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I’m sure L would’ve loved to do something like this with her mother and help decorate. But NK probably already did that with her so Sarah was off the hook.

Like imagine begging for new appliances just to not utilize them and have fun baking with her daughter during the holidays.

She seems so proud of picking this up too lol. Like how embarrassing.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Lmfaooooo. It is such a hideous concoction. Why use brand new appliances and a big new renovated kitchen when I could just buy the ugliest pre-made dessert at the grocery store and take a picture of it in the cart. Like you said, it could have even been the pre-made cookie dough! This really puts on display how little she does, especially when paired with a big-sweater “I’m taking a break” couch picture. She is such a loser

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago

She’s “taking it easy” by posting another 1/2 naked reel.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

She thinks she’s the gift…if she accepts an invitation they are the lucky ones to be in her presence. The amount of time she spends sitting on her lazy ass as a grown woman is very uninspiring.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 4 days ago (3 children)

And, how did I know something stupid like this was coming. 🙄 Compared to moms I know she is always in wind down mode - I’ve never seem someone sit around as much as her, well I guess there are her other influencer besties.

Do you think anyone actually asked if she was okay?!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago

Literally nobody asked! She just wants to play the victim as always. She was only quiet because she was hiding her Botox and lip filler.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago

No, because most people are busy trying to get shit done for Christmas.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

She’s the laziest POS!!! Seriously get off your ass and do something other than sitting in a glam chair getting made up for yet another even that you unfortunately get invited to. Lazy sack of shit

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 days ago

The fact NK does all these cute Xmas crafts and baking with L while Sarah sits on her ass playing a victim is so gross. All Sarah does with L is take her shopping and make her sing Disney songs to film for content over and over again.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 days ago

This person always selling off KNIX and S&T. At what point will they get a clue.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Love how she has nothing going on so she’s trying to go back to the mother of the year schtick to end the year with the “look at me being a mom taxi” and “this is how we spend our Friday nights” and “look at our tree filled with gifts” 🙄 when the rest of the year she hardly spent time with her kids because she was being a big career gal. She didn’t pull out that whole mom taxi crap majority of the year now suddenly it’s back to “oh I cherish these moments”. Give me a break.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 5 days ago

Even when she pretended to be a “single mother”, she didn’t even do any of this. Shes such a sham

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Also, correct me if I’m wrong, I don’t have children, isn’t “taxiing” your young children around just part of being… a mom? Does she want special recognition for this regular task or is her children needing a drive somewhere so out there and quirky it has to be highlighted?

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 days ago

Yes, it definitely is just part of being a Mom and many moms are putting 7 days a week into the job - they don’t have shared custody. If she and the Beard-wonder stay together she’ll really know what it’s all about with L and she’s going to be a whole lot older!

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 6 days ago

God I can’t stand her and her phoney bullshit. Botox for “migraines” bitch sit down. I am a lifelong chronic intractable migraine sufferer and can smell her bullshit from Milton. She’s such a fraud

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I fixed it for her super fans!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I would feel like a complete tool posting this, she really thinks she’s the shit. The way she thinks people care about her boring stories is laughable. I do wonder how many people actually watch them and engage.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Her trying to smile is like when you walk a long way, outside in the cold. It looks painful

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If the goal is that all woman look the same and there is one instagram worthy standard of beauty she probably does look at her selfies and thinks she looks good.

Funny thing is that I thought she was all about bursting through beauty standards and expectations. Her fame off of zero values or principles is wild to me.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 6 days ago

They all literally look like the "perfect make up" filter on TT. Didn't she use to say "ageing gracefully" or some crap like that? Now they all make themselves look the same. Nothing stands out about any of them anymore. Cookie cutter boring, clout chasing, affiliate link, grifters. So predictable. Such a snoozefest

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 6 days ago (3 children)

And I quote “so much more bang for your buck” How would she know she didn’t pay for jack shit?

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