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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] bunniculamonroe@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Another part of this whole free cruise bullshit that bothers me is that it is so close to Christmas. For some families who could potentially afford this after saving up, this would be their Christmas gift to their family. But this family is going to come home and still have Christmas with an obscene amount of gifts, both free and bought. She tried the whole Disney is the gift thing last year, and that ended up being a lie. Nothing about any of this is relatable even in the smallest amount no matter how hard she tries. She has to know how bad this makes her look, and that is probably why she sprinkled in the divorce talk yesterday. It's her only relatable tool anymore and even that wasn't a relatable experience to most people's divorces. And seeing Renee and Jilly there just reconfirms that the most undeserving always seem to come out on top.

I forgot to add that every day she does the advent giveaway with products she didn’t even have to buy herself. There comes a point with wealth that you should get really embarrassed by accepting free things.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sarah's parents repurchased her house for her after the divorce. Her father originally paid her portion of the down payment when Sarah and her first husband bought their house at age 20. She chose the house $$ over going to university. Sarah complains about missing out on university but skips the part where she was financially set up. Sarah forgets that she bragged non-stop to her friends and extended family that she had the jump start in her 20s because she skipped post-secondary education. Sarah's marriage was hunky-dory until the kids were old enough that she stopped getting attention. When the attention shifted to her sister's newer family Sarah started losing weight and cheating.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

I gues her parents drew the line at getting their Princess her own ride. Her sob story includes only having one vehicle so she and the kids were trapped at home! She couldn’t possibly walk places or take transit or drive her husband to work and pick him up. She was just stuck! It’s interesting to find out her parents gave her the downpayment. She’s never wanted for anything in her entire life.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Well said. Nothing like rubbing in a free cruise two weeks before Xmas while a lot of parents are probably scrabbling to provide a nice Christmas for their families. And while she’s at it, she’s going to make it seem like it’s something affordable even though she didn’t dip into her wallet the entire time. And no I don’t believe she realizes how bad this makes her look! She doesn’t care, she’ll just be all “oh I’m so grateful to be given this opportunity as media”.

And her advent thing makes me so mad because like you said, she isn’t paying for any of the gifts she’s giving away! She never does anything from the goodness of her heart and that isn’t gifted.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Magically cured & ready for all things Disney! Can’t wait to meet up with Jillian and Renee. Grifters Unite 🏰

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

And posting this at like 4am. Like who gives a shit then? Lol.

She did her minimal charity this week and now it’s back to only caring about herself and her free trips.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Yep and of course lululemon was there to provide gifts 🙄🙄🙄 f$ck off. As if lululemon needs the likes of SNL to promote their overpriced products

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

She even admittedly said “I’ve been hoarding what they’ve sent me for this moment”. Could’ve given it to charity, but nope. Grifter needs 875 Disney shirts to wear once.

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

But don’t forget folks, her poor wittle mental health suffers too. Just like the rest of us who are working 50 hours a week, balancing children, extracurricular activities, and trying to buy Christmas gifts.

God I HATE her

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Meanwhile house full of free product, brand new kitchen, and freezer full of free food are sitting pretty not being used by anyone

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I can’t get over how hard life is for her 😒 Another mention yesterday about her divorce. What a difficult time that was. Having a house to move into with her parents who were there to financially support her and look after her kids when they weren’t at their dads.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Could you imagine, being on yet another lovely vacation with your entire family, including your HUSBAND and your ex is living rent free in your head.............forever...........

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

One of the few things she can use to manipulate her followers. That’s why she is constantly bringing it up. She can’t use the mental health card while she runs around this ship happier than a pig in shit.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

No one could ever convince me she felt a shred of guilt or any other sort of way when she moved in with her parents. She thought she deserved all the handouts and support. Just like she still does. Once a freeloader, always a freeloader.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

Imagine this was the morning after a night full of panic attacks caused by WHO KNOWS anymore!! LOL would never be

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (9 children)

How does this woman adult daily and have kids?? Who doesn’t pre check the weather of where they’re going, who isn’t prepared and just packs something just in case? If I’m going in a trip at a time of year where weather is questionable, I’m gonna pack certain things just in case I need them.

She just wants MORE freebies, because getting to go on a cruise vacation isn’t enough.

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Didn’t she pull this crap on one of her trips to NYC?

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

She said she ‘forgot’ a packing cube so she only had mini skirts! Oops!

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When she left, there was snow on the ground in Guelph. When she returns, it will still be winter. Was she wearing shorts when she left? That warrants at least 2 pairs of pants she should have. Who even believes this clown

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

She claims the pair of pants she had got wet yesterday on a ride and now she’s hoping they can get washed 🙄 but seriously, you only brought the pants you wore? She just wants more. She prob has a store allowance for the cruise.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

For a woman who has been to Disney 1,000x and on Disney Cruises 500...she knows there's laundry available. She's just absolutely pathetic

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

That’s why I almost think it’s a bs story so she can talk about the onsite laundry available and try to make it look authentic.

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

Guaranteed tomorrow’s story will be “so and so saw my story about not packing pants and gifted me these brand new very expensive pants for my free expensive Disney cruise”

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I guess CT needs some stock cleared!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Back with riveting nontent.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Speaking of Bird being shit at her job. I am assuming she did not have consent when she exploited her son last night for her IG story because it was quickly deleted. Did anyone else see that?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I wonder if their father is helping them stay off her socials.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

I wonder too bc I find B and G have been featured a lot less lately.

[–] bunniculamonroe@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I wonder if she has to pay him any kind of child support since she obviously makes way more money than him.

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

I didn’t get a response but it would have obviously been the same. Missing the point entirely!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)
[–] Daisymay22@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I interpreted this as these sinks are in the buffet so you can wash your hands right there. Surprise surprise, Turdie provided zero context about what makes this buffet special or innovative, and continues to prove that she’s lazy and bad at her job lol

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

It looks like a bathroom so ya she does suck at her job 🤣

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Her dream is to wash her hands before eating?

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

She somehow manages to keep getting more dumb. It’s crazy.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I can just imagine all these influencer chicks trying to out do each other in every room. Gosh I hope everyone on that boat is an influencer or else the other passengers deserve something free too. Can you imagine them talking to themselves and being obnoxious, telling everyone who paid that they are there for free. Watching this whole thing is just weird. I think Jillian was drunk at noon.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Could you imagine? A boat full of people just walking around, talking to their phones all day like a bunch of lunatics.

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[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I received a response from the company that gifted S. with all of the food. I appreciate that they responded. I just can’t fathom how S. continues to carry on the way she does with zero accountability. Janette has a great post today regarding all of the influencer tactics. I’m glad she’s continuing to speak about this.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago

That’s cool they apparently donate, but they completely missed the point and didn’t even address it. Guess potential customers know where they clearly stand now.

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I got the exact same thing. I think it’s a cop out response that misses the point (that they shouldn’t be donating food to rich influencers during a housing and food insecurity crisis).

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