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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

The fact she was more concerned with getting to another event last night than getting home to her family? Like her priorities are fucked up. She’s been to Paris, Disney and NYC in the last couple weeks yet missing an event was upsetting 🙄

On one of the snarks (can’t recall which one) someone mentioned that maybe the big kids don’t live with her anymore and I’m starting to feel the same 🤔 she legit never mentions anything about B or J anymore, I know B made a brief appearance a couple days ago but J is nowhere to be seen. But good for them if they’ve created boundaries, I’d love that for them!!!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

"We" have had a phenomenal week? "We" who? Oh wait............her and her many faces, body types, and personalities. Got it

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

And there it is BirdShit Saves Halloween with her regurgitated content. Do remind us about how you hand out FULL size chocolate bars and get over 300 kids.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

I feel like she looks so distorted here? Why is she always taking up sidewalks to take pics and film videos bc the next story is her filming L in the middle of the sidewalk and you can tell people are walking by. People like her are so obnoxious.

Also you end up at the mall every weekend bc it’s what YOU want to do and you just blame your kids. You have all the fun going on trips and then just drag your kids to the mall instead of doing anything worthwhile.

ETA: sorry I forgot to blur out L

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I am assuming y’all have children’s libraries, science centers, nature centers, museums, cultural centers, trampoline parks and what not’s in Canada. Or hell even a regular old fashioned park with a swing and a slide and other children. Does she live in a rural area or something? Why not a weekly trip to the library and the farmers market or something? ANYTHING more engaging than the same mall, home decor and toy store they visit every. single. week.

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[–] ArtisticAdiago@lemm.ee 13 points 1 month ago

Wow filtering herself to look like a size 2 here 🤯 I’m a size 4/6 and look bigger than this in pictures

[–] You_received_that_way@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

Her head is bigger than her torso interesting flex today

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Priorities. Meanwhile their child was probably dumped off at grandmas.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

She cares more about an electronic toy than her own kid, what a sad excuse for a mother

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago

At this point, she’s simply a birther. Not even remotely deserving of the title of mother.

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[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago

I had to read that caption twice…a 40 year old asking her husband to babysit her Tamogotchi. That’s just so stupid! Go spend some time with your real children!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Pretty telling she is finally home and out for dinner and L is sitting so far away from her with her dad.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Heaven forbid she has to be responsible for watching her or helping her eat.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (5 children)
[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

The migration of that bottom lip filler. It's like a little hammock

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago

The eyebrows are super villain arched today. She gave herself like 4 inches of lid space! She bold lol also stfu about the trick or treating. I never even thought about teenagers trick or treating/not doing so until SHE brought it up. Then she whines about how she used to be scared of them? Wtf.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Really laying on the, I’m the best mom, look at me spending time with my child super thick tonight.

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago

And it’s so awkward too! It’s so staged and she’s acting like she’s playing with a child much younger than L actually is. Once the camera is off, it seems like she’s probably done

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Last night and again tonight - she’s just trying to back up her mom of the year BS from her podcast.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I read the transcript of that podcast and she was going through so many contortions trying to justify her mothering it was painful. It appears she was playing the part of a 1950s tv mom while her first 3 were very young and is now playing the part of a high-powered executive. She’s unable to recognize there is balance. She’s also not shy about throwing her ability to pay others to pick up the slack to ease her burden (something most people can’t afford). I found the passage about dropping L off and having coffee with her own mother every morning very telling. She says she doesn’t want the relationship to be transactional. She uses that word a lot when speaking of relationships.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Not her laying it on about the damn trick or treating again today. This is such a NON ISSUE!!!! Why doesn’t she put this energy into something important?? Oh right because that would require caring about important world issues so she’s choosing something that is super minimal and only lasts a day to show she cares.

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Right, meanwhile over here in the US we are days away from Election Day like 🙈🙏🏽🤯🤢🫠😩🤞🏾🤪🥸

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

Looks like busy boss babe at quite a busy November. She just got her schedule! Is that part of Shine’s job as well? To organize Birdshit’s life.

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Regardless of it being hubby's bday or not, it seems as though her "entourage" are distancing themselves further from her. Although I am not a fan of her BFF/old BFF/flavor of the month AC, at least she is pretending to do something for her community being at the Childrens Foundation event. For the "influencer" and "fame" S has, you think she would be showing her face at these events. But no, she's only self serving and would never fathom doing anything good for her own community. Only if it involves a trip for herself to Disney. Wonder why? Oh.......because her community knows the real S and sees right through her. She's also burned so many bridges within the community, being selfish with free services from small business and taking off. Or maybe she feels she's out in the community doing good, every weekend, gracing Guelphites with her presence at the mall......

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Interesting choice of words.

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)

SEEMS.

Man, that comment is loaded with subtext.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago

It’s sad that Shame’s mother only views his life through curated photos that are posted to social media. Her only conclusion is he “seems happy”. I wonder what she doesn’t see.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I see Shame is hanging with all his friends for his Birthday 😆

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Truly embarrassing for this “man” to be whipped so bad by her. Can’t even have his own friends at his birthday party, probably none of them want to come if she’s there especially if they have wives (they prob hate her).

There is never anyone associated with him at any of their gatherings ever.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, I’ll never feel sorry for Shane but how sad, yet not surprising, that Sarah served him her friends for his birthday. Avery is another Sarah posting crap for clicks but stands for nothing.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No sign of Briony and yet she made this post

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No NB and her husband either and they always tag along

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 month ago

Ariana busy doing children’s charity, NB looked like she was busy doing kids sports.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

🤣 Ok Amy from Shine

And Becci with some performative bs

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is Becci brain dead? Pandora has had gold jewelry for as long as I can remember. Plus Sarah has showcased their gold jewelry before so clearly Becci doesn’t watch her friends stuff closely.

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago (3 children)

When will companies finally start to realize not to work with her? Reitmans has her collab basically on sale for 90% off. I was curious and crunched numbers for her Crappy Tire cups. In stock cups within all of the stores: 664 hot travel mugs, 697 cold tumblers. At retail cost, between the 2, that's $45,936.07 of product not moving. With those numbers, being generous, they seemed to have produced 1,000 of each hot/cold cups. So they have made $21,841.33 in retail sales off these shitty cups. Minus marketing costs, photoshoots, and what they paid her for it, they're at a loss, or if anything, just broke even on this terrible colab. And for what?

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I’m always so curious about these collab #’s . The cups are fugly and I’m surprised they aren’t already on clearance. I’m shocked Scrap & Toss can still be in business. The latest JF launch with Jillian looks like a complete failure. Also I’m completely mystified how this “nutrition” brand CIRA is still investing so heavily using Alicia ffs.

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