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I had 10/15 of these when I was single, and I was single for a very long time. That is how I had the time to learn all these hobbies/skills.
Right? Just the other day I was thinking about how many hobbies I dropped once I started seriously dating, and then later how many more when I had kids.
My guitar hasn't been touched in years. My books have gone unread. My 3D printer is getting a workout making organizational tools and little toys for the kids though lol
If you see my kayak and fishing poles tell them I miss them and I hope I get to spend more time with them when my son is a few years older.
If it makes you feel any better, I have a relative who's single and I've been helping him clean out his shop on the weekends. Just a shit load of fishing and kayaking gear that I've had to make a whole like 20 ft wall just to organize. He works 60 hours a week because he's the only one there paying bills (his parents house, he's deeply attached) and hasn't touched his shit in probably a decade, we're all screwed really.
Right.
Along the years I have managed to scrounge together almost all the gear I always dreamed of when I was young. Nothing really expensive or fancy, but good quality second hand stuff that would get things done right.
But there just isn't any time to use them. And if by some miracle a bit of time appears, it's guaranteed that I'm dead tired and choose sleep.
Maybe one day.
Guitar and books are great hobbies to return to when you're older. It can be harder with sports.
From talking to my female friends the bar for men is incredibly low. Basically have good hygiene and be able to take care of yourself and you're already in the top 60-70%