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I had one where she obviously wasn't actually interested and just came for the free food cause she was poor. I hung out for a bit, bought her an extra meal to go and then just left.
Hey, man. You dropped this: 👑
That was really nice of you though.
Maybe, but I wish it wouldn't be considered "really nice" and instead just be called basic compassion. Compassion doesn't seem to be common enough to be a basic thing though 😕
I don't think manipulating someone with the guise of a relationship is very compassionate. She could at least have been upfront about it.
Gtfo dude how are you acting more upset than the man that went on the date with her? If he's being more understanding then maybe you should chill the fuck out
Well but a lot of people would not have.