US Authoritarianism

Your reusing of the exact same argument with different wording doesn't magically make it a better argument - an honest person judges others on the quality of their actions, and such moral judgment is wholly independent of their tribe.

The "what about those people of that other tribe" is not an argument about the quality of the actions of this person because there is no chain of causality linking them - she is not doing it because the past actions of those others forced her to act like this now. Pulling such unrelated events up is morally dishonest and means you're a Tribalist first and foremost, hence you are also unethical and immoral as you put tribe-membership above Ethics and Moral when judging such actions.

There is no such thing as being Honest, Ethical or Moral if a person's Tribe changes your judgement of their actions: the supporting of Genocide by a member of the Democratic Party is not made any less or any more deserving of condemnation by their membership of the Democratic party or by there being members of the Republican party who did or would do the same or worse - the actions speak for themselves, PERIOD.

Yours is the kind of excusing of Evil that makes Zionists go around mass murdering Palestinian children or supporting those who do: they do the Evil they do with such gusto and intensity that it amounts to Genocide and then claim it's only because of what Hamas did before: i.e. the greater evil done by "my side" they justify with the evil done by "the other side" even though causally the latter does not cause the former - there really is no need to kill tends of thousands of children to get at Hamas.

No matter what their tribe, any person commiting such actions whilst saying such things as this lady deserves exactly the same opprobrium, and that includes this lady. Her tribe and those other people's tribe is irrelevant for anybody who is an Ethical, Moral and Honest person.